I think one of the things that matter the most in choosing care is that your ideals and thoughts on parenting and care line up and if not always they at least respect the things that you are asking for in terms of how to care for your child. I have learned a lot from this childcare as my children have grown. Heather has two kids of her own that are grown and has been through all the things that we had not and was there to ask questions to in terms of handling things or questions as they get older. We can all benefit from having someone who’s already been through a situation and you can learn from their experiences.